I just discovered my bf has a lingerie fetish?
Posted by admin on December 27, 2009
I just found out my bf of 2 yrs (whom I am aware also likes men) has a fetish with gay men in panties & lingerie. I saw pics he recently posted on a website if him in MY undergarments. I’m not sure what to think. How would you feel?
The thing is, we have an AMAZING, open, connected sex life and I thought we communicated well-especially about fantasies. This comes across totally shocking & I’m unsure of what to do.
Could someone explain why this is attractive? I’m pretty open minded and kinky but I just can’t grasp this one.
I will say, he told me the truth when confronted-which I greatly appreciate. He could have lied-I mean talk about embarrassing!
This is merely a way of being in touch with his feminine side,Hey enjoy it and embrace it!He has been truthful,now do your part,reassure him and have a bit of a laugh together,think of all the fun you can have in public but privately when out buying "undies "you both like and can share.Please do not think of this as a problem, more of an Extension to your honest and "open"loving relationship.
Bl@@dy good luck to you both,I am sure with this amount of openness in your lives you will do well and go far.
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Ethan said,
Just ask him silly.
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Quarks said,
He probably didn’t tell you because he was embarrassed. Why is it attractive to him? Well, people are just attracted to certain things. Sometimes they’re not even sexually related. Just be glad he’s not like a pedophile or something.
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Senior citiZEN said,
You probably need to tell him that you know. Then say if you are ok with it or not. If you are ok with it, tell him you’ll help him shop for clothing that will fit him better than yours (also this will eliminate the chance of him stretching your stuff of of shape). Believe it or not, if you are alright with it, you will probably not only enjoy shopping with him but also increase you friendship feelings toward one another.
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nudangler said,
This is merely a way of being in touch with his feminine side,Hey enjoy it and embrace it!He has been truthful,now do your part,reassure him and have a bit of a laugh together,think of all the fun you can have in public but privately when out buying "undies "you both like and can share.Please do not think of this as a problem, more of an Extension to your honest and "open"loving relationship.
Bl@@dy good luck to you both,I am sure with this amount of openness in your lives you will do well and go far.
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Experience
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