Comments on: To clarify I have kind of a lingerie fetish that I don’t want to share with my wife so is it okay to have? http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have Niche Specialty Fetish Mon, 28 Dec 2009 07:01:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: par http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5271 par Mon, 28 Dec 2009 06:09:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5271 u should tell her<br><b>References : </b><br> u should tell her
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]]> By: Queenie` http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5270 Queenie` Mon, 28 Dec 2009 06:04:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5270 Here's an easy test to see if it's cheating from Dr. Phil: If you can do it with your wife there, it's not cheating and not wrong! If you CAN'T or WON'T do it with your wife there, it's wrong and cheating. Pretty simple, quit trying to convince yourself you are not cheating, good lord! Don't think your wife is so stupid either, can't wait til she finds out lol<br><b>References : </b><br>Married 23 yrs. Here’s an easy test to see if it’s cheating from Dr. Phil:

If you can do it with your wife there, it’s not cheating and not wrong!

If you CAN’T or WON’T do it with your wife there, it’s wrong and cheating.

Pretty simple, quit trying to convince yourself you are not cheating, good lord!

Don’t think your wife is so stupid either, can’t wait til she finds out lol
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]]> By: BONE http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5269 BONE Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:35:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5269 It's technically not cheating, but you really should just come out and tell your wife. It will be awkward for a little while, but as she comes to grasp with your weird fantasy and excepts it, you'll both be happier in the long run. You never know maybe she has an off the wall fantasy trapped inside a self conscious cage wanting to come out that you'll inspire her to release.<br><b>References : </b><br> It’s technically not cheating, but you really should just come out and tell your wife. It will be awkward for a little while, but as she comes to grasp with your weird fantasy and excepts it, you’ll both be happier in the long run. You never know maybe she has an off the wall fantasy trapped inside a self conscious cage wanting to come out that you’ll inspire her to release.
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]]> By: Shaggy http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5268 Shaggy Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:23:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5268 Your wife is obviously not into your crossdressing, get over it. Get counseling if you want to stay with your wife. You are cheating if you have phone sex with someone else. Respect her and break it off if you need to pursue this outlet for yourself.<br><b>References : </b><br> Your wife is obviously not into your crossdressing, get over it. Get counseling if you want to stay with your wife. You are cheating if you have phone sex with someone else. Respect her and break it off if you need to pursue this outlet for yourself.
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]]> By: kittykatsback http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5267 kittykatsback Mon, 28 Dec 2009 05:12:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5267 Same answer. And again, HINTING DOES NOT COUNT! She is your WIFE for Pete's sake! Do you really want to go down that road of deceit? Let me guess, you already have....<br><b>References : </b><br> Same answer. And again, HINTING DOES NOT COUNT!

She is your WIFE for Pete’s sake! Do you really want to go down that road of deceit?

Let me guess, you already have….
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]]> By: Queen http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5266 Queen Mon, 28 Dec 2009 04:35:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5266 no it is not okay you need to tell her. pray. go to church and get some help<br><b>References : </b><br> no it is not okay you need to tell her. pray. go to church and get some help
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]]> By: elvlayarvvi http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5265 elvlayarvvi Mon, 28 Dec 2009 03:58:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5265 wrong, it is cheating... it's not ok to have a woman on the side even if it's only on the phone... when you married you vowed to forsake all others, this includes sexual talk w/ a woman who is not your wife... perhaps if you were straight forward, and didn't hint, she might take you seriously... a man who hints is not taken seriously... if you care about her, you would try to win points w/ her all the time and never lose points... if I was your wife, and found out you did this, I'd divorce, cheating is cheating...<br><b>References : </b><br> wrong, it is cheating… it’s not ok to have a woman on the side even if it’s only on the phone… when you married you vowed to forsake all others, this includes sexual talk w/ a woman who is not your wife… perhaps if you were straight forward, and didn’t hint, she might take you seriously… a man who hints is not taken seriously… if you care about her, you would try to win points w/ her all the time and never lose points… if I was your wife, and found out you did this, I’d divorce, cheating is cheating…
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]]> By: Arnold M http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5264 Arnold M Mon, 28 Dec 2009 03:40:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5264 In your wives eyes, you are cheating. I had that experience with online web chats. My wife accused me of cheating. It led to our breakup. If you must have the fantasy, you need an outlet, but it's risky. If you want to control it, see a counselor.<br><b>References : </b><br> In your wives eyes, you are cheating. I had that experience with online web chats. My wife accused me of cheating. It led to our breakup. If you must have the fantasy, you need an outlet, but it’s risky. If you want to control it, see a counselor.
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]]> By: ayoungwomanonearth http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5263 ayoungwomanonearth Mon, 28 Dec 2009 03:17:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5263 You would lose "points" with your wife because you are a plain old ordinary cheater and wives just do not like or enjoy being cheated on in anyway shape or form. And YES that is cheating. You are a weakling. AND to make it even worse !!! YOU LIE TO YOURSELF! Behind your fraudulent image you are bizarre! Valerie is absolutely correct... you have a serious problem. The thing is.. will YOU realize it in time to save your marriage to your unsuspecting wife or not?<br><b>References : </b><br> You would lose "points" with your wife because you are a plain old ordinary cheater and wives just do not like or enjoy being cheated on in anyway shape or form.

And YES that is cheating. You are a weakling. AND to make it even worse !!! YOU LIE TO YOURSELF! Behind your fraudulent image you are bizarre!

Valerie is absolutely correct… you have a serious problem. The thing is.. will YOU realize it in time to save your marriage to your unsuspecting wife or not?
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]]> By: krandazzo1986 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have/comment-page-1#comment-5262 krandazzo1986 Mon, 28 Dec 2009 02:51:59 +0000 http://www.specialtyfetish.com/lingerie-fetish/to-clarify-i-have-kind-of-a-lingerie-fetish-that-i-dont-want-to-share-with-my-wife-so-is-it-okay-to-have#comment-5262 why do you men think little things like thisd arrent cheating....pay attention closely...ITS CHEATING ITS CHEATING ITS CHEATING! just because your physically not having sex with this other person doesnt mean your not mentally CHEATING thinking doing talking about anything other than with your wife is CHEATING!!!!!!!<br><b>References : </b><br> why do you men think little things like thisd arrent cheating….pay attention closely…ITS CHEATING ITS CHEATING ITS CHEATING! just because your physically not having sex with this other person doesnt mean your not mentally CHEATING thinking doing talking about anything other than with your wife is CHEATING!!!!!!!
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