Posted by admin on December 27, 2009
My boyfriend recently suggested for us to use sex toys, and I am happy with this as i feel 100% comfortable around him. However this is very new to me and i just wondered if many couples use toys?
According to Xandria: “The most common vibrator user was a white Christian married woman, in her thirties, who votes Republican.” – Source, Xandria’s toys in the sheets survey.
I know hundreds of couples who use them, because I correspond with them frequently. But you didn’t mention what kinds of sex toys your boyfriend wants to use. There are anal sex toys, penis rings, dildos, vibrators, sex furniture, bondage toys, fetish toys and more. Even some lubes and lotions can really crank things up.
The point is, you have to kind of grind out the details on what you are, or aren’t going to want in the play session. For instance, some people find anal toys gross, while others can’t imagine sex without an anal plug involved. Some people like vibrating penis rings, while it kills the mood for others.
So before you say "yeah, sounds like fun," you might want to get ultra-specific about exactly what you are willing to try. And talking it through might even give you both other ideas for play.
Also, it really helps to know what stimulation excites you. Take some time with fingers, tongues and other appendages to figure out what does it for you, then find the toy that will hit the spot. You may even discover that the finger is the toy you like best!
Good luck in your search. Hope this helps.
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I am interested in learning more about sex toys. Specifically which sex toys are better than others, what materials are best, and how to choose a sex toy.
If you want to LEARN (the other answers seem to just try to get you into online sex shops!) about them there is this site called Sex Toy Spy that has articles about everything to do with sex, including sex toys (even one about this freaky machine that doctors used on women in Victorian times that was actually a vibe…). There are also forums with some threads/user comments about certain toys e.g. clone a willy and anal beads. What is a vibrator: http://www.sextoyspy.com/ShowSexMasterArticle.aspx?ID=37
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I need something like fleshlight but I can’t buy them.I need good things to replace sex toys for MEN.
you can make your own… i saw this a couple years ago:
http://www.homemade-sex-toys.com/flashlight/
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I am a boy that likes to touch, see and wear girls panties, Is this normal?
Its not really normal, but its ok. Wearing panties is fun, thrilling and comfortable. Enjoy yourself.
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I don’t know what it is. I love a woman in panties, especially satin fullbacks or even granny panties. Maybe what I find so erotic about them is what they seem to leave to the imagination and what naughty secrets they may hold. I love the way a nice pair of panties hug a woman’s butt just right. I love getting a woman so wet her panties are left saturated before I take them off. I love the musky scent that is so sexy. So, tell me this. Am I normal? Am I obsessed with womens’ underwear? For me this has been a fetish I’ve had since I was in my early teens. It’s so strong I’ve even stolen my stepmom’s panties but keep in mind that she is young and very attractive. I’m lucky I’ve never been caught after all this time. Is there a cure for this 20 year panty fetish I have? How common is it? I’ve had girlfriends that loved this fetish and used it to tease me and others that simply don’t get it or are freaked out by it. That’s why I’m asking these questions.
I have a pair of granny panties if you want them….I was gonna throw them out!
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??? or any kind of fetish for that matter….
Of course its possible. In fact, fetish fantasies are very common – I have read statistics saying that over 40% of the population has some kind of fetish.
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I am a 14 year old male… and get my panties, clothes, and bras from around the house and I dress up alone… I was wondering what i can do to make this fetish a little bit more fun/interesting without going out in public to get panties etc.
Well i guess going to the store might be an option but i want to stay at home…
blast music and dance in panties and a bra…
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For gay or bi women, what’s your favorite costume or lingerie for a lipstick lesbian?
LESBIANS ARE SO F**KING HOT OMG IM ORGASMING AT THE THOUGHT OF IT ANYTHING POLICE BIKEY BUILDER NUDE OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH GOD ORGASM YES YES YES HUNNY GO FOR ANYTHING THEY ARE SO HOT OHHHHHHH FASTER FASTER AHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA phew yea anything nude especially to lick there vagggina omg its nice
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phone sex with another women to take care of this fantasy? I have hinted to my wife about this unmanly behavior and its clear I would lose points with her. So is it okay and not really cheating!
wrong, it is cheating… it’s not ok to have a woman on the side even if it’s only on the phone… when you married you vowed to forsake all others, this includes sexual talk w/ a woman who is not your wife… perhaps if you were straight forward, and didn’t hint, she might take you seriously… a man who hints is not taken seriously… if you care about her, you would try to win points w/ her all the time and never lose points… if I was your wife, and found out you did this, I’d divorce, cheating is cheating…
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I just found out my bf of 2 yrs (whom I am aware also likes men) has a fetish with gay men in panties & lingerie. I saw pics he recently posted on a website if him in MY undergarments. I’m not sure what to think. How would you feel?
The thing is, we have an AMAZING, open, connected sex life and I thought we communicated well-especially about fantasies. This comes across totally shocking & I’m unsure of what to do.
Could someone explain why this is attractive? I’m pretty open minded and kinky but I just can’t grasp this one.
I will say, he told me the truth when confronted-which I greatly appreciate. He could have lied-I mean talk about embarrassing!
This is merely a way of being in touch with his feminine side,Hey enjoy it and embrace it!He has been truthful,now do your part,reassure him and have a bit of a laugh together,think of all the fun you can have in public but privately when out buying "undies "you both like and can share.Please do not think of this as a problem, more of an Extension to your honest and "open"loving relationship.
Bl@@dy good luck to you both,I am sure with this amount of openness in your lives you will do well and go far.
My boyfriend recently suggested for us to use sex toys, Do many couples do this ?